Wednesday, April 8, 2009
How nice it is for us to wait for the right man to love us..to touch us..
When female students come to me and ask me about love, my small advice would always be, try to be patient and wait for your prince charming who is going to be your husband. There is no use to rush in choosing the wrong man and to sacrifice ourselves without knowing the journey of our future with him. Girls should have dignity in protecting themselves from getting hurt at young age. Girls should focus on becoming a successful person in academic world, focus in becoming a good Muslimah, focus in contributing our energy and intellect to our society. Why worry about love and marriage at young age? Opportunities and chances to become successful person are waiting for everybody outside there. If we let ourselves to be trapped with inappropriate love and lust, we could easily lose our dignity and respect in the eyes of our family, society, friends and among all, in the eyes of Allah swt. Girls should be patient and wait for the right man before they surrender to love. Love and marriage should rhyme together. We should not love and get hurt because our hearts are too tender, too soft, too special to bleed over and over again. I pray so that all women and girls in the world meet their true love and we will be treated with kindness and respect. Be smart...pay back all kindness and sacrifice given by our beloved parents. Try to be the best daughter to them. Then, meet the king of your heart, your soul mate, fall in love, get married and be blessed with prayers all around us. Words of kindness and beautiful wishes will come to our ears, knowing we are going to be a wife and a mother. Be smart ladies..choose the right pathway according to Islam..