Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Wrong or Right

In life, a lesson
learned in your past that you will never forget completely.When I was in elementary school, I got into a major argument with a boy in my class. I have forgotten what the argument was about, but I have never forgotten the lesson learned that day.

I was convinced that "I" was right and "he" was wrong - and he was just as
convinced that "I" was wrong and "he" was right.

The teacher decided to teach us a very important lesson. She brought us up
to the front of the class and placed him on one side of her desk and me on the other. In the middle of her desk was a large, round object. I could clearly see that it was black. She asked the boy what color the object was.

"White," he answered.
I couldn't believe he said the object was white, when it was obviously black! Another argument started between my classmate and me, this time about the color of the object. The teacher told me to go stand where the boy was standing and told him to come stand where I had been.

We changed places, and now she asked me what
the color of the object was. I had to answer, "White." It was an object with two differently colored sides, and from his viewpoint it was white. Only from my side was it black.

My teacher taught me a very important lesson learned that day: You must stand in the other person's shoes and look at the situation through their eyes in order to truly understand their perspective .

My question now...Do I need to be in `H' shoes to know whether this relationship will work out? Or is the relationship too simple yet I am too blind to accept the fact that nothing is going to come out safely when we play with fire? Am too old to take any chances to get hurt...too old...

Monday, June 16, 2008

Selamat Hari Bapa..Haji Hashim


Pagi tadi 4am, abah jatuh tersembam masa nak halau anjing masuk kawasan rumah kami. Abah sedang bertukang, buat rumah kucing sebab kucing di rumah kami semakin banyak. Abah tersadung simen, abah tahan dengan tangan, so tangan kanan abah terkepak dan terseliuh. Adik D panggil and kami punyalah risau tengok abah sebab adik kata dia sedang tengok bola, jadi dia tak sedar abah dok panggil dia. Sedar-sedar abah merangkak masuk ke dalam bilik dan terlentang kat lantai depan pintu bilik abah. Dengar tu pun, I almost cried. Nasib baik tak nampak abah merangkak, if not memang I would definitely cry. Tunggu abah masuk toilet, cuci badan, adik siap tempat tidur abah. Mama di Terengganu, rumah kak long dengan Ja sekeluarga. Then abah balut tangan yang sakit, terus abah tidur. I couldn't sleep that well. Kejap2 bangun tengok abah. Ada at one moment, I went into his room, wanted to touch his feet and selimutkan abah. I cried. Ishhhh! Sayunya tengok abah gitu. Too sad. Kalau abah tak ada dalam dunia ni, pada siapa lagi diri ini nak mengadu. Tak kan ada orang yang akan faham what I want in this world. I doubt `H' knows and I don't think `H' even cares.

Abah memang macam tu. Sangat kuat bertukang dan sangat pandai bertukang. Full of ideas and very creative. Memang pelik, orang lain tidur waktu tu, abah akan sibuk dengan apa saja kerja yang abah suka especially bertukang, wiring, tengok kereta, berkebun, mencuci kawasan sekeliling rumah kami. Ada je benda yang abah akan buat.

Tapi semalam 1st time abah jatuh. He is already 65. Looks strong because he is so healthy regardless of his habit of a chain smoker and takes sweet drinks most of the time. Maybe the way he works everyday yang membuatkan abah berpeluh tanpa henti. Kelemahan abah ialah panas baran. Tu je..kekuatan abah - very intelligent, pemurah, sayang binatang, suka tolong orang, works hard for the money, managed to send all children ke highest education, memang tak kan terbalas jasa abah jaga mama dan anak2. He might sound harsh in his own way but I believe he is much better than some men. I wish to find a man mcm abah, orang kampung yang cerdik. Itu je......Semoga Allah swt menjaga abah.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Why Employess Leave Organisations?

Taken from: http://itblackbelt.blogspot.com/2008_01_01_archive.html

Something to ponder


Every company faces the problem of people leaving the company for better pay or profile.

Early this year, Mark, a senior software designer, got an offer from a prestigious international firm to work in its India operations developing specialized software. He was thrilled by the offer.

He had heard a lot about the CEO. The salary was great. The company had all the right systems in place employee-friendly human resources (HR) policies, a spanking new office,and the very best technology,even a canteen that served superb food.

Twice Mark was sent abroad for training. "My learning curve is the sharpest it's ever been," he said soon after he joined.

Last week, less than eight months after he joined, Mark walked out of the job.

Why did this talented employee leave ?

Arun quit for the same reason that drives many good people away.

The answer lies in one of the largest studies undertaken by the Gallup Organization. The study surveyed over a million employees and 80,000 managers and was published in a book called "First Break All The Rules".

It came up with this surprising finding:

If you're losing good people, look to their immediate boss .Immediate boss is the reason people stay and thrive in an organization. And he 's the reason why people leave. When people leave they take knowledge,experience and contacts with them, straight to the

"People leave managers not companies," write the authors Marcus Buckingham and Curt Coffman.

Mostly manager drives people away?

HR experts say that of all the abuses, employees find humiliation the most intolerable. The first time, an employee may not leave,but a thought has been planted. The second time, that thought gets strengthened. The third time, he looks for another job.

When people cannot retort openly in anger, they do so by passive aggression. By digging their heels in and slowing down. By doing only what they are told to do and no more. By omitting to give the boss crucial information. Dev says: "If you work for a jerk, you basically want to get him into trouble. You don 't have your heart and soul in the job."

Different managers can stress out employees in different ways - by being too controlling, too suspicious,too pushy, too critical, but they forget that workers are not fixed assets, they are free agents. When this goes on too long, an employee will quit - often over a trivial issue.

Talented men leave. Dead wood doesn't.

"Jack Welch of GE once said. A company's value lies "between the ears of its employees".

6 Ways You're Wasting Gas (Fuel)

6 Ways You're Wasting Gas (Fuel)
It's not easy to break bad driving habits, but if you don't, the money you lose on gas could wind up breaking your bank.
By Peter Valdes-Dapena

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) -- With all the worry over fuel prices, you'd think drivers would do whatever they can not to waste gas. But look around and you'll see lots of them tooling around as if they owned their own tanker fleet. One of them might be you.

Here are six ways drivers typically waste gas on every trip:

1. Racing away from green lights
When the light turns green, you don't have to take off as quickly as possible. That pedal under your right foot is called the "gas pedal" for a good reason. The more you press down on it, the more gas you're pumping into the engine.

Press lightly on the gas pedal, and you'll still accelerate, and you'll still get where you're going. You might be surprised at how little pressure it takes to get your car up to speed in a reasonable time.

2. Racing up to red lights
When you're driving down the street, and you see a light red light or stop sign up ahead, you should lay off the gas sooner rather than later.

There's no point in keeping your foot on the gas until just before you reach the intersection. Let off the pedal sooner and give your engine a rest as you coast to the stop while braking gently. As an added benefit, your brake pads will last longer, too.

By themselves, these first two tips can improve your fuel economy around town by as much as 35 percent, according to tests conducted by automotive information Web site Edmunds.com.

3. Confusing the highway with a speedway

Even if it doesn't involve hard acceleration, speeding wastes gas. The faster you go, the more air your vehicle has to push out of the way. It's like moving your hand through water. The faster you try to move your hand, the harder the water pushes back.

In tests by Consumer Reports, driving at 75 miles per hour instead of 65 miles per hour reduced fuel economy by between 3 and 5 miles per gallon, depending on the vehicle.

4. Bumper-buzzing
Tailgating is a bad move for many reasons. First of all, it's unsafe. You reduce your ability to react if the car in front of you slows or stops. It also means you have to pay ultra-close attention to that car which reduces your ability to scan for other hazards ahead of you and to the sides.

And tailgating wastes gas. Every time the driver ahead taps his brakes, yo u have to slow down even more than he did. (That's because you can't react immediately so you have to slow even more because you're slowing down later.) Then you accelerate again to get back up to speed and resume your bumper-buzzing routine.

Hang back and you'll be safer - plus you'll be able to drive more smoothly and use less fuel. A good rule of thumb is to allow two seconds of space between your car and the one ahead. You can figure that out by counting off two seconds after the car in front of you passes an obvious landmark like an overpass.

5. Driving standing still
You've probably heard that it takes more gas to restart a car than to let it run. Maybe that used to be true, but it isn't anymore. With modern fuel-injection engines, it takes very little extra gas to restart a car once it's warmed up.

Idling, meanwhile, burns about a half-mile worth of gas every minute, according to the California Energy Commission. That's why hybrid cars shut down their gasoline engines whenever they stop, even for a moment.

Now you don't want to shut your engine down for every little stop in your regular, non-hybrid car - it's not designed for that - but if you're waiting for someone to run in and out of a convenience store, turn off the engine.

And don't go through the drive-through at fast food restaurants. You're already paying enough for the oil in those chicken nuggets.

Bonus tip: Don't idle your engine to let it warm up before driving. It does your engine no good and it wastes gas. Instead, start driving right away, but drive gently until the engine is warm.

6. Short hops
For really short trips, take advantage of the opportunity to get some exercise. Try walking to the store instead of driving. You can save gas and burn a few calories instead.

If you can't ho o f it, save up your errands. A lot of short hops that let the engine cool down at home between trips can use twice as much gas as starting the car once and making a big sweep to all your stops, according to the U.S. Department of Energy.

Go to your farthest destination first so your engine has a chance to reach its optimal operating temperature. Then make your other stops on the way back. With the engine warmed up, the car will restart easily and run efficiently all the way home.

Kenaikan minyak membakar `aqidah' Umat Islam - artikel yang membuka minda

Dari email: Sutera@yahoogroups.com

Something good for us to share……………so think it over….

Pengumuman kenaikan harga petrol semalam disambut ‘riang’ oleh rakyat Malaysia sehingga stesen-stesen minyak di seluruh negara ‘berpesta’ sakan. Kenaikan ini pada mulanya di umumkan oleh Menteri Perdagangan Dalam Negeri dan Hal Ehwal Pengguna, Datuk Shahrir Samad bahawa berkuatkuasa Ogos nanti namun indah khabar dari rupa. Kenaikan sebanyak 78 sen kepada RM2.70 seliter menggambarkan situasi yang sangat membimbangkan ramai pihak terutama individu yang berpendapatan rendah dan sederhana. Kekhuatiran kenaikan harga barang juga menjadi perdebatan yang hangat di meja kedai kopi hingga ke meja makan dapur. Rakyat semakin resah, paniknya semakin bertambah. Dalam masa yang sama juga petrol sudah ‘membakar’ aqidah.

Membakar Aqidah

Selepas pengumuman tersebut, dunia seolah-olah mengalami ‘kiamat’ kecil. Stesen-stesen minyak sesak sejak awal petang lagi hingga lewat tengah malam. Solat maghrib terlepas begitu sahaja akibat kesesakan yang dialami sehingga ada beberapa individu yang bergaduh kerana berlanggar sesama sendiri. Cacian juga hinaan dilontarkan kepada kereta-kereta yang memotong barisan tanpa mengira bangsa atau agama. Setibanya di rumah lewat malam dalam keadaan yang sangat memenatkan, solat isyak tergadai begitu sahaja akibat panggilan bantal dan tilam lebih enak berbanding panggilan Ilahi untuk mengadap-Nya.

Umat Islam terutamanya sanggup mengeluarkan kenyataan yang berbaur syirik kecil;

Matilah aku harga minyak sudah naik. Kalau tak isi malam ni akulah manusia paling rugi di dunia

Ayah di rumah pening memikirkan sumber pendapatan dan kos sara hidup yang semakin meningkat sehingga menolak keyakinan terhadap REZEKI dan KEBERKATAN kurniaan Allah s.w.t kepada sekalian hamba-Nya. Ibu di dapur sebak lalu menangis mengenangkan kesulitan yang bakal dihadapi dalam membesarkan anak-anak sehingga Kekuasaan dan Keesaan Allah s.w.t diketepikan secara perlahan-lahan tanpa sedar.

Masyarakat semakin kurang solat berjemaah gara-gara masjid jauh dari rumah dan penjimatan minyak diutamakan kepada pengunaan untuk mencari nafkah di luar. Jika dahulu setiap kali hujung minggu ziarah saudara-mara menjadi rutin, tetapi alasan kenaikan harga petrol menjadi penghalang utama mengikat silaturrahim sesama saudara Islam. Ceramah-ceramah agama makin berkurang hadirinnya akibat langkah penjimatan yang dilakukan oleh masyarakat sampai ke tahap yang membimbangkan.

Peniaga-peniaga menaikkan harga barang dengan sewenangnya walaupun menerima subsidi sehingga hilang keimanan mereka kepada Allah s.w.t Yang Maha Melihat;

Tak siapa tahu aku menipu dengan naikkan harga. Tak siapa nampak aku simpan stok untuk tinggikan lagi harga

Remaja-remaja rempit yang berkeliaran kian giat merompak dan meragut untuk ‘menyara’ tunggangan mereka yang bernama 125Z dan RXZ. Jenayah seksual juga semakin meningkat akibat kos kenduri dan pernikahan dalam masyarakat Melayu terutamanya menghambat pasangan yang ingin berumahtangga untuk menyediakan sekurang-kurangnya puluhan ribu ringgit. Keinginan yang menggila untuk menyediakan pelamin yang gah, kenduri yang besar, persalinan pengantin yang banyak, upah jurugambar, dan sebagainya menjerut leher mereka sendiri sehingga menolak persoalan KEBERKATAN dalam pernikahan itu sendiri. Tidak hairanlah muda-mudi hari ini memilih jalan yang paling mudah untuk mengisi ‘keperluan’ mereka sebagai manusia yang sudah lanjut usia dengan menyewa hotel murah bersama pasangan tanpa mengeluarkan belanja yang besar. Malah lebih teruk lagi ada yang menculik dan merogol sesiapa sahaja yang berkesempatan.

Bagi keluarga yang sudah biasa dengan hidangan yang sedap serta mahal harganya mula resah akibat kenaikan harga barangan yang melambung. Hidangan yang dihadkan kepada lauk-pauk yang murah mengakibatkan anak-anak mula merajuk. Isteri di dapur pula sehari semalam berleter kepada si suami untuk mencari wang yang lebih untuk menyara keluarga. Suami yang kepenatan tertekan dan kadang-kala boleh menjurus ke arah membunuh diri. Struktur sosial keluarga kian terhakis satu demi satu.

Kenderaan di halaman rumah yang memerlukan petrol yang mencukupi untuk digerakkan menjadi harta utama yang dipandang oleh masyarakat. Hanya kerana ingin bergaya, kereta mewah dan menggunakan petrol yang banyak sanggup dibeli semata-mata memenuhi pandangan masyarakat terhadap KEBAHAGIAAN dan KEJAYAAN yang salah takrifannya.

Situasi ini menampakkan kepada kita kerakusan manusia dalam mengejar kepentingan sendiri tanpa memikirkan soal hidup orang lain.

Masyarakat yang longgar aqidah mereka kian menjunam ke lembah syirik secara perlahan-lahan. Benar bukan? Petrol ‘membakar’ aqidah.

Bertuhankan Dunia

Situasi ini berlaku apabila manusia itu sendiri ‘menyembah’ dunia serta menolak kebenaran Islam yang dibawa melalui al-Quran dan al-Sunnah. Persoalan gaya hidup mewah menjadi kegilaan yang sangat menggerunkan sehingga ada yang sanggup menggadaikan maruah dan kehormatan untuk mencapai kesenangan hidup. Lambakan iklan-iklan yang menjaja kemodenan yang berteraskan nafsu dikayakan dalam media massa serta disuntik ke dalam pemikiran rakyat. Maka, masyarakat selesa berada dalam keadaan mewah ini tanpa memikirkan persoalan nasib orang lain yang tertindas dan hidup dalam serba kekurangan.

Kenderaan mewah yang menimbulkan kemegahan masyarakat selama ini menjadi ukuran kekayaan seseorang di mata masyarakat. Malah hampir semua perniagaan langsung dan Multi Level Marketing (MLM) menggambarkan usahawan yang berjaya mesti memiliki kerta mewah sebagai kayu ukur kejayaan hidup seseorang. Adakah benar dengan memiliki kereta mewah seseorang itu dianggap berjaya? Kejayaan dalam konteks kebendaan yang dilihat ternyata merosakkan sistem masyarakat. Masyarakat sudah menodai Rukun Negara yang pertama tanpa disedari; Kepercayaan Kepada Tuhan.

Persoalan gaya hidup yang terlalu mementingkan kemewahan dan keselesaan menampakkan kepincangan mentaliti masyarakat, tidak terkecuali kepada umat Islam. Saranan gerakan sivil serta pertubuhan-pertubuh an bukan kerajaan selama ini yang tidak diambil endah kian difokuskan sebagai jalan keluar segala permasalahan yang dihadapi saban hari. Dahulunya pandangan golongan ini dianggap sebagai ‘kurang waras’ oleh masyarakat akibat racun pihak media massa yang menusuk setiap urat nadi rakyat.

Memadam Kebakaran

Saranan YAB Perdana Menteri Malaysia , Datuk Seri Abdullah Ahmad Badawi kepada rakyat untuk menukar gaya hidup dilihat sebagai “meludah ke langit”. Sebagai seorang pemimpin yang beragama Islam, riwayat hidup saidatina Khadijah wajar dijadikan sebagai iktibar dan pedoman kepada seluruh umat Islam. Apabila musyrikin Mekah memboikot penganut Islam ketika itu, saidatina Khadijah tampil dengan menggunakan kesemua hartanya sebagai penyelamat kepada kesengsaraan yang dialami umat Islam sehingga beliau jatuh miskin. Saidina Abu Bakar pula sanggup menghabiskan semua hartanya dalam membantu penderitaan umat Islam sehingga beliau berkata:

Hanya Allah s.w.t dan Rasul-Nya sahaja yang aku tinggalkan kepada isteri dan anak-anakku

Tauladan yang mulia ini sepatutnya dijadikan ikutan setiap umat Islam yang benar-benar beriman kepada Allah s.w.t dan percaya kepada pertolongan- Nya dalam setiap kesulitan yang dihadapi. Jika umat Islam memahami syari’at Islam serta mengambil tindakan bersama untuk menangani segala permasalahan yang dihadapi berlandaskan al-Quran dan al-Sunnah, tidak ada yang mustahil dengan pertolongan dari-Nya.

Majoriti menteri dan ahli parlimen beragama Islam. Malah kekayaan golongan ini mencapai ke suatu tahap yang sangat tinggi sama ada melalui pengisytiharan harta secara terbuka mahupun yang disembunyikan. Tidak mustahil dengan ketokohan golongan ini mengambil iktibar keperibadian saidina Abu Bakar al-Siddiq serta saidatina Khadijah sedikit sebanyak mengurangkan beban rakyat dalam menghadapi krisis harga petrol yang melambung. Sangat sukar tetapi tidak mustahil. Mengapa? Penanaman aqidah yang sahih dalam diri masyarakat di Malaysia sedikit longgar sejak kecil akibat kepincangan sistem pendidikan namun keyakinan kepada ganjaran Allah s.w.t wajib menjadi pegangan utama. Peringatan ini harus diulangi saban hari.

Firman Allah s.w.t dalam Kitab-Nya:

Telah timbul berbagai kerosakan dan bala bencana di darat dan di laut dengan sebab apa yang telah dilakukan oleh tangan manusia; (timbulnya yang demikian) kerana Allah hendak merasakan mereka sebahagian dari balasan perbuatan-perbuatan buruk yang mereka telah lakukan, supaya mereka kembali (insaf dan bertaubat)

[QS al-Rūm 30:41]

Mari kita sama-sama memikirkan kembali kerosakan yang kita lakukan di dunia sama ada bersifat zahiriah mahupun batiniah. Semoga Allah s.w.t menghimpunkan kita dalam golongan yang bersyukur dengan apa yang ada dan beriman kepada-Nya dengan sebenar-benar iman. Astaghfirullah.

Monday, June 9, 2008

Gambar kenangan Ogos 2006

Saja nak tengok gambar lama..tu baju paling cantik yang pernah ku pakai, sampai sekarang belum pernah disentuh baju tu..Bila nak pakai lagi ya? Kak long beli kain tu..mahal..kesian kak long..always wanting the best for me and adik2..nak buat camana, tak ada jodoh..Tapi Kak Long is the best sister especially sebab KL suka shopping hehehhe saja tambah gambar Taj Mahal..mana tau satu hari boleh sampai sana...

RAKSI - the soul of my PHD

I have just finished designing RAKSI paper work for JKTS. And I remembered meeting Prof Ahmad last week. He is looking forward to meet me. I want to explain to him on RAKSI development as my hard core content for my PHD. Ya allah..bantulah hamba mu ini.


1. What is RAKSI? (Rakan Siswa module)
2. How did RAKSI help to develop UHS1011 (Soft Skills 1) at UMP?
3. Who are the respondents? (1st year students)
4. What is the kind of methodology used? (qualitative? quantitative)
5. What is the development of RAKSI in UMP? (history)
6. Who are the facilitators? (RAKSI Implementation Committee)
7. What is the content in RAKSI? (10-14 modules on Soft Skills, KI elements and UMP core values)
8. Was RAKSI successful? How did you measure?
9. What is the statement problem? (the needs of good quality leadership modules for students' Soft Skills at UMP)


Sunday, June 8, 2008

Hotel MAYA, KL..once upon a time in my life..

If you are looking for a sweet and nice time in a hotel room..just to be alone..to focus on solitary, to sit back and enjoy the view..Hotel Maya has it.. :-) They are not paying me to do so..it is just that I have stayed there 3 times and I would like to go there again..regardless of the location. It is just opposite KLCC and next to British Council. Some good times happened there..with friends from UMP and with.. ehem ehem :-) just to add some mystery spice. I know things will never be repeated, am not expecting so, love comes and goes as the wind...I don't want to have any more hopes..no more love, no more dependency.. :-) again Haslinda could just be saying it on this blog! Hotel Maya remains as a memory which can never be repeated..I doubt the feeling of love is there anymore.. :-)

Mata yang kelabu akhirnya terang hanya dengan memakai cermin mata..


I have always been a fan of this writer (ahisham2001@yahoo.com)..sejak kenal dunia Relexjap, simple yet with deep meanings in life. May Allah swt bless you and your family, Dr Hisham.

Assalamualaikum wrt

Seringkali juga saya ke kedai cermin mata untuk membersihkan cerminnya. Senang aje nampaknya - dimasukkan dalam alat yang khas, kemudian bila digilap, Masya Allah, cukup menyenangkan mata. Tiba-tiba dunia menjadi cerah dan terang.

Begitulah juga jika hati kita ini sentiasa digilap dengan cahaya Ilahi, kita akan mudah melihat mana yang baik dan mana yang buruk. Kita akan mudah terdorong untuk melakukan kebaikan. Kaki akan mudah melangkah ke tempat-tempat yang baik.

Kadang-kadang hairan jika kita lihat ramai orang mudah sangat melakukan maksiat pada Allah. Mudah sangat mata ini terdorong untuk melihat bahan lucah di internet. Rupa-rupanya mata hatinya itu telah gelap. Usaha ke arah menggilapkan mata hatinya diabaikan. Yang wajib
di abaikan - apatah lagi yang sunat. Jika lakukan yang wajib pun, yang sunat diperkecilkan. Yang wajib pun dibuat ala kadar sahaja. Akibatnya cermin hatinya makin lama makin pudar. Syaitan mudah sangat mengelirukannya.

Akhirnya - sedikit demi sedikit mata hatinya semakin tumpul. Tanpa disedari, yang wajib ditinggalkan - sehinggalah dia melayakkan dirinya mendapat gelaran fasik oleh Allah swt.

Moga Allah sentiasa bersama-sama dengan kita dan saya akhiri dengan maksud Ayat dari surah As-Syams:

"Demi jiwa serta penyempurnaanNya (ciptaanNya), Maka Dia mengilhamkan kepadanya (jalan) kejahatan dan ketakwaannya. Sungguh beruntung orang yang mensucikannya (jiwa itu). Dan sungguh rugi orang yang mengotorinya."

Boleh juga lihat nasyid DEMI MATAHARI yang berasaskan surah ini di:



Dr Hishamuddin Alham

How important it is for you to keep in touch with friends?

I have always wondered..Have I done anything wrong or have I been over excited in keeping old and new friendships going on? Life is simple as it is..but people tend to use time constraints as reasons not to be able to keep in touch. I think I put too much effort..maybe I do..and by reading sms from friends, they have given me hints that they are busy and will not be able to say `hi'. I write, I write, I write, I write...I help, I help, I help..I speak..I speak..I speak...I entertain friends...I laugh at their jokes..I listen to their sorrow...
I make an effort to make friends happy and satisfied..Do all I could to make people happy..Nevertheless, Allah swt has promised us that life is about dealing with problems, miscommunication, mistreatment and other obstacles so that we will remember the beauty of having Allah swt inside our heart.

Definitely this post has a sad tone..well.. I am merely a human being..And everybody goes through this phase of loneliness..

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

Tak ada mood nak menulis...petrol punya penangan!

Kenapalah Malaysia tak boleh buat sesuatu tentang harga petrol ni? Why? I am so worried tentang masa depan rakyat Malaysia..Ya Allah..lagilah ramai yang akan rasa tertekan dengan financial problems..Kalau ramai yang tertekan, ramai yang akan terdedah kepada kerja2 maksiat atau less integrity..mcm melacur, GRO, rasuah, pecah amanah, mencuri, menipu...Kerajaan tk nampak ke kesan harga petrol ni pd jiwa rakyat?

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Love Poems...

All I can think of is him..

Funny how men and women think differently...

Women's Love Poem
Before I lay me down to sleep,
I pray for a man, who's not a creep,
One who's handsome, smart and strong
One who loves to listen long,
One who thinks before he speaks,
One who'll call, not wait for weeks.
I pray he's gainfully employed,
When I spend his cash, won't be annoyed.
Pulls out my chair and opens my door,
Massages my back and begs to do more.
Oh! Send me a man who'll make love to my mind,
Knows what to answer to 'how big is my behind?'
I pray that this man will love me to no end,
And always be my very best friend.

Men's Love Poem

I pray for a deaf-mute nymphomaniac with
large boobs who owns a bar on a golf course,
and loves to send me fishing and hunting.
This doesn't rhyme and I don't give a shit.